Category Archives: foster care

The Reality of Foster Care

Disclaimer before you read: I have worn many hats during my adult life. I began college in 1998. While attending college and after graduating, I was a teacher in daycares, public schools, a private school, and many different church programs, … Continue reading

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Happy Birthday to A Precious 7 Year Old Girl!

Dear Sweet Girl, You are already seven! I can’t believe time has went by so quickly. You had just turned 4 when we first met almost three years ago! You stole our hearts from that first day. Your mischievous little … Continue reading

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Tired

-I’m tired from the fight. -I’m tired from the constant battle. -I’m tired from the reality of everyone else besides me having a hand in planning my family’s future. -I’m tired from having to answer to many, many different people … Continue reading

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Difficulties in God’s Plans

Many days thoughts flood my mind constantly. Thoughts of: Did I choose this journey for myself or is this God’s complete will for my life? I always find myself thinking: Life is hard right now… Life is difficult… Life is … Continue reading

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Happy Birthday Little One

Today we celebrated your big number 1! Although our days with you haven’t been many, our love for you has grown with each morning light. Your smile is so contiguous and your eyes sparkle with delight! We trust that God … Continue reading

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Why?

Why? Why do I continue to subject myself and my family to the uneasiness, uncertainty, and heartache that comes along with being a family that cares for innocent children in foster care? I don’t enjoy all the feelings and emotions … Continue reading

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Top 5 Reasons Not to Become a Foster Parent

Being a foster parent isn’t easy. It’s actually one of the most difficult tasks the Lord has ever called me to. So, today, I will list the top 5 reasons why you should not consider becoming a foster parent. Do … Continue reading

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An Adoption Party with Lilo and Stitch

AJ loves Stitch. So, when we decided to go to Disney during his “gotcha” week, I knew we had to schedule an adoption party with Lilo and Stitch at Ohana. Mickey Mouse and Pluto joined us, too. We are thankful … Continue reading

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A Ride through the Sky and Legoland Beach Retreat

We are so excited to be celebrating the fact that AJ joined our family 2 years ago this week. Some families call the day “Gotcha Day.” Others choose names such as “Family Day” or “Adoption Day.” To us, the name … Continue reading

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When God Says Wait

Sometimes, our desire is so strong that waiting for God’s perfect timing is difficult. Anxious fears creep up in the waiting, and insecurities place a cloud of doubt over our heads. The what-ifs speak louder than the hope of the … Continue reading

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